我的PS拍檔 - 愛就要說出來

我看了2012年上映的韓國電影「我的PS拍檔」三次，PS是指Phone sex。

不得志天才作曲家賢勝發現拍拖七年、分手不到三個月的前度同居女友素妍交了有錢男友大受刺激，在家中喝得爛醉如泥之際，接到允貞打來的電話。

兩人來了一段phone sex以後，允貞才發現自己打錯電話…… 

詳細資料可以參考一下這個不錯的blog：

http://windko0813.pixnet.net/blog/post/98151191-%E9%9F%93%E5%BD%B1%E2%88%A5%E3%80%8A%EB%82%98%EC%9D%98-ps-%ED%8C%8C%ED%8A%B8%EB%84%88%EF%BC%88%E6%88%91%E7%9A%84ps%E6%90%AD%E6%AA%94%EF%BC%89%E3%80%8B%E5%BF%83%E5%BE%97

我媽媽

我媽呢？😊

通常是我要我媽帶傘🌂的。


她需要閙鐘的。


她覺得我又多口又好管閒事所以很容易喉嚨痛。


因爲出生的時候我留醫了一個多月，她永遠覺得我身體差，因爲我有胃病、鼻和皮膚敏感。

她傷了膝蓋可以不哼一句，換了我家姓許的男人們全都呼天搶地。


每年三月中旬左右她就希望開空調嘆冷氣☃，爸說她來自北極⛄️。


她寡言，一般一天到晚開籠鳥兒似的是我爸和我三弟，二弟一天到晚都想睡😄

她沒有見過喝醉🍾的人，所以我學懂「自作孽就得自己想辦法活」。😁😁

除了我、本我、自我和超我，沒有人會知道我另一隻襪子會在那裏。😜😜

錯了性別不錯愛二之不悔情書

終於看到第二部，首部的甜蜜換來兩個人相愛卻不容於世上似的壓力。

無論多愛對方，單靠談情無法共度此生，雙方需要面對現實，那是一場愛的力量與殘酷現實的比拼，畢竟只有童話故事才有「從此幸福快樂地生活下去」的結局！

現實生活裏，愛情敵不過猜疑、貪婪、面子......

或許只有我們自己以爲那是愛情而已！

藍色生死戀主題曲「祈禱」2016蕩氣回腸版

十多年前韓流鼻祖劇集「藍色生死戀」、鄭日英唱的插曲「祈禱」，由Ailee重新演繹的版本很動聽，我覺得那樣才算蕩氣回腸，動聽得我想學懂怎樣唱。

혹시 나를 떠나려는 그대 맘이 힘든 
ho si na lu don na yo nu ke te ma mi 
猜想妳要離開我了 

나를 위해서 그런 이유인가요 
him tun na lu mi he so ku la ni yu in ga yo 
是怕我愛的太累 才給了這樣的理由嗎？ 

하루만큼 멀어져도 괜찮아요 
ha lu ma kum mo lo chyo to ke cha na yo 
即使這疏遠的距離 需要流逝一天的光陰也無所謂 

그대 어디 있어도 사랑인걸 믿어요 
ku de o di i so do sa la in ko min do yo 
因為無論妳身在何方 我相信這就是愛 

*그땐 난 미처 몰랐죠 나를 보던 그대 눈빛 
  ku de na mi cho mo la chyo na lu po don ke te nun pin 
  望著妳注視我的眼神 連妳那小小肩膀 

  작은 그대 어깨조차도 안아줄 수 없던 내가 싫었죠 
  cha ku ku de o ge cho cha do a na chu su o do ne ga si ro jo 
  我都無法擁妳入懷 我憎恨這樣的自己 

  언제까지 슬픈 운명 우릴 갈라 놓아도 
  won se ga chi su pun nu na u li ga la no a do 
  即使逃不過悲情命運安排使我們分離 

  또다시 그대 맘을 울리지느 않을께예요 
  du dan si ku de ma mu u li chi nu ha nu go ye yo 
  我不會再讓妳的心流淚 

  어떤것도 나의 그댈 대신 할 수 없기에 
  o don ko dun na ye ku de de si na su o gi e 
  妳無可取代 

  이제는 그대 보다 소중한 건 내게 없단걸 아나요 
  i che nun ku de pun ta so chu na no ne ke o dun do a na yo* 
  現在起 沒有比妳更重要的東西 

나를 보며 웃는 그대 그 미소가 
na lu pun u nun ku de ku mi so ka 
看著妳對我露出的笑容 

내겐 너무나 벅찬 그런 행복인걸요 
ne ke mo mun na pun cha ku lo ne pun gin ko yo 
我能體會這就是幸福 

더 가가이 기대와도 괜찮아요 
to ka ga i ki de wa to ke cha na yu 
妳可以再靠近我一點 

그대 숨결 느끼는 지금 이순간처럼 
ku de tsun kya nu gi nun shi ku mi tsu ka cho lo 
在這一瞬間 讓我來受到妳 
*

언제까지나 여기 있어요 작은 손길 닿는 곳에 
won che ga chu na yo u i so yo cha ku sun ki ta nun ko se 
無論何時 只要我一伸手就能觸摸到妳 

그대 사랑이 나를 불렀죠 그대 곁으로 
ku de sa la i na lu pun lo chyo ku de kyo ju lo 
是妳的愛在呼喚我 把我帶到妳身邊 

The Thing We Did Last Summer

The boat rides we would take
The moonlight on the lake
The way we danced and hummed our favorite song
The things we did last summer
I'll remember all winter long

The midway and the fun
The kewpie doll we won
The bell I rang to prove that I was strong
The things we did last summer
I'll remember all winter long

The early morning hike
The rented tandem bike
The lunches that we used to pack
We never could explain that sudden summer rain
The looks we got when we got back

The leaves begin to fade like promises we made
How could a love that seemed so right go wrong
That things we did last summer
I'll remember all winter long

(The early morning hike
The rented tandem bike
The lunches that we used to pack
We never could explain that sudden summer rain
The looks we got when we got back)

The leaves begin to fade like promises we made
How could a love that seemed so right go so wrong
That things that we did last summer
I'll remember all winter long

星期天晚上參加社團晚宴以後，因爲翌日起放假三天，心血來潮獨自走到稱之爲家的酒廊喝兩杯，慶祝假期開始，鬆弛鬆弛。

晚上十一時多，酒廊的客人不多，自個兒玩玩自拍，聼聼歌，不亦樂乎！

直道聼到這首歌，本來是一首美好的情歌，直到最後一段一句為什麽那樣美好的愛情會錯(How could a love that seemed so right go so wrong) ，突然覺得晴天霹靂，才知道世界上的愛情大多如是！

一切在變質以前都是美好的，有時候一開始就已經有伏筆，我未有發現而已。

這歌是一個警惕，無論多美好，有心理準備比較好！

The Crazy One

Always the crazy ones, the crazy ones
Will never forget it all
Cause it's the crazy ones, the crazy ones
Who make our life such a beautiful mess

Woo, even the worst times were the best times
The best times ever, woo
Even the bad days were the good days
I'll always remember, woo
Then I'll always keep parts of you
Are part of me forever

Oh, cause it's the crazy ones, the crazy ones
Will never replaced
Oh, cause it's the crazy ones, the crazy ones
Who make our world beautifully insane

Woo, even the worst times were the best times
The best times ever, woo
Even the bad days were the good days
I'll always remember, woo
Then I'll always keep parts of you
Are part of me forever

Here's to the crazy ones
Here's to the crazy ones

The ones are pushed too far
The ones will fly too fast
The flames that burn too bright
That burn too bright to last
They're anything but easy
They're anything but sane
But once they're in your life
You'll never be the same

Woo, even the worst times were the best times
The best times ever, woo
Even the bad days were the good days
I'll always remember, woo
Then I'll always keep parts of you
Are part of me forever

Here's to the crazy ones
Here's to the crazy ones

Here's to you, my crazy friend
There's a hole in the world
That will never be filled again
Here's to you, my crazy friend

這歌讓我想起離世的好朋友們，那些曾經跟我一起瘋的好朋友。

除了悲慟以外，也許我更該感恩，感謝她們曾經在我生命裏，C會勸我多儲錢，應該實際一點，元旦日早上R陪我一起打掃我在大除夕晚上在她家門前留下的嘔吐物，即使相隔兩地還是會陪我一起哭……因爲自己相信不會再有這樣的朋友。

正如歌詞最後一段所說，瘋朋友離開以後，世界從此有了一個無法填補的洞。

Waltz

貼的原因，就是錯了性別不錯愛。

錯了性別

不錯愛，說的就是兩個女孩子的愛情故事。

復活節期間，因爲好奇，首次看了内地近期火熱的網絡電影「錯了性別不錯愛」，然後因爲米勒，我再看了五六次！作爲一個帥T，米勒真的帥！單看她調情已經覺得有點暈眩，已經忘了她的性別！

北京大學饒毅教授 2015 年度畢業典禮致詞

在祝福裹著告誡呼嘯而來的畢業季，請原諒我不敢祝願每一位畢業生都成功、都幸福；因為歷史不幸地記載著：有人的成功代價是喪失良知；有人的幸福代價是損害他人。

從物理學來說，無機的原子逆熱力學第二定律出現生物是奇蹟；從生物學來說，按進化規律產生遺傳信息指導組裝人類是奇蹟。

超越化學反應結果的每一位畢業生都是值得珍惜的奇蹟；超越動物慾望總和的每一位畢業生都應做自己尊重的人。

過去、現在、將來，能夠完全知道個人行為和思想的只有自己；世界很多文化藉助宗教信仰來指導人們生活的信念和世俗行為；而對無神論者 —- 也就是大多數中國人 —- 來說，自我尊重是重要的正道。

在你們加入社會後看到各種離奇現象，知道自己更多弱點和缺陷，可能還遇到小難大災後，如何在誘惑和艱難中保持人性的尊嚴、贏得自己的尊重並非易事，卻很值得。

這不是：自戀、自大、自負、自誇、自欺、自閉、自縛、自憐；而是：自信、自豪、自量、自知、自省、自贖、自勉、自強。

自尊支撐自由的精神、自主的工作、自在的生活。

我祝願：

退休之日，你覺得職業中的自己值得尊重；

遲暮之年，你感到生活中的自己值得尊重。

不要問我如何做到，50 年後返校時告訴母校你如何做到：在你所含全部原子再度按熱力學第二定律回歸自然之前，它們既經歷過物性的神奇，也產生過人性的可愛。

Taemin - Press It Teaser 2

Taemin - Press It Teaser 1

泰民很努力，這是他努力的成果。

Only Love Can Hurt Like This

英國女歌手Paloma Faith 這次表演超酷！

Hello

那年開始的時候我們聊得不錯，然後好像慢慢相對無言，分手初期，曾經以爲可以假裝什麽都未有發生，可以一如既往，可是這終究過不了自己，過了一段艱難的日子，又然後工作多了，卻幾乎每次溝通都要吵架似的，這樣過了多年，現在我們終於可以像老朋友一樣聊天。

與其唏噓，不如感恩，我不願意永遠地恨我愛的人，雖然那愛因爲現實環境而必須撥亂反正（說得好聽一點叫被升華），或許該說愛出於貪婪，我們必須升華只能像老朋友一樣。

Hello不一定是這樣的，若要如何，全憑自己。

金希澈我的愛人

When We Were Young

Everybody loves the things you do
From the way you talk
To the way you move...
Everybody here is watching you
'Cause you feel like home
You're like a dream come true

But if by chance you're here alone
Can I have a moment?
Before I go?
'Cause I've been by myself all night long
Hoping you're someone I used to know

You look like a movie
You sound like a song
My God
This reminds me, Of when we were young

Let me photograph you in this light
In case it is the last time
That we might be exactly like we were
Before we realized
We were sad of getting old
It made us restless
It was just like a movie
It was just like a song

I was so scared to face my fears
Cause nobody told me that you'd be here
And I swore you moved overseas
That's what you said, when you left me

You still look like a movie
You still sound like a song
My God, this reminds me
Of when we were young

Let me photograph you in this light
In case it is the last time
That we might be exactly like we were
Before we realized
We were sad of getting old
It made us restless
It was just like a movie
It was just like a song

When we were young...
(When we were young)
When we were young...
(When we were young)

It's hard to win me back
Everything just takes me back
To when you were there
To when you were there
And a part of me keeps holding on
Just in case it hasn't gone
I guess I still care
Do you still care?

It was just like a movie
It was just like a song
My God, this reminds me
Of when we were young

When we were young...
(When we were young)
When we were young...
(When we were young)

Let me photograph you in this light
In case it is the last time
That we might be exactly like we were
Before we realized
We were sad of getting old
It made us restless
I'm so mad I'm getting old
It makes me reckless
It was just like a movie
It was just like a song
When we were young

相隔四年，萬衆期待的Adele新專輯25在11月20日面世便勢如破竹，裏面我最喜歡的是這首歌，首次聽到的時候感觸落淚。

Adele在官方網頁說，如果上一張專輯是關於分手，這張就是關於補償。

由Chasing Pavement ，Make You Feel My Love 到現在When We Were Young，Adele的歌娓娓訴説我的故事似的，雖然到目前還不能盡如人意，請問世上有多少事能盡如人意呢？

最後一餐你會吃甚麽？

http://henryhargreaves.com/no-seconds

來自紐西蘭的攝影師 Henry Hargreaves在《No Seconds》拍下美國死囚的最後一餐，希望從食物的角度，反映出他們面對死亡的態度。

在美國，各州的死刑判決並不相同，對待死囚的態度也不一樣，但基於人道，大部分都會滿足他們的願望，送上想要的餐點。有些地區限定「最後一餐」有上限金額，以避免浪費資源，有些地區則是典獄長會自掏腰包請吃大餐。

Henry Hargreaves 並非首位拍下最後餐點的攝影師，但他還將死刑犯的簡要資訊、罪行、餐點名稱和用餐情境，羅列在照片旁，例如55 歲的Angel Nieves Diaz 因謀殺和綁架被判刑，他拒絕點餐，就此上路；Victor Feguer 只點了一個橄欖；Ronnie Lee Gardner 是少數選擇槍決、而非注射死亡的人，他點了龍蝦、牛排、蘋果派和冰淇淋，搭配《魔戒》小說；John Wayne Gacy 身上背著 33 條人命，他曾經是 3 家肯德基的經理，最後一餐也選擇肯德基全桶炸雞，搭配草莓做結。

這些餐點都是 Henry Hargreaves 在工作室裡重建而成，就像是囚犯看見的餐點一樣，「當你讀相關的死刑資料，就只是統計數字和名字列表，但最後一餐更能看見死刑犯們背後的性格，多了一點人的味道，」Henry Hargreaves 說。

「過去」的試探

昨晚我在面書說：

「過去兩天，我跟兩個不同圈子、遭遇相同的朋友說了相似的話：「過去」的確會不時到訪，它一出現，人難免會想起，有時難免唏噓......

你面對與否，它都會繼續來試探你，儘管你起初多激動、熱情的「接待」，慢慢你會無動於衷。

那叫「麻木」也好，「放下」也好，記住：「你要來我也不一定要歡迎你接待你，你可以呆在一旁，或者乾脆回去！」

既然生命未必如我意，我選擇去做如我意的事—只要世上還有鞋和香檳可買！」

一個女的被少自己六嵗的男同事熱烈追求，以爲精誠所致，結爲佳偶，後來男的有了小三丟了婚姻，女的重遊舊地，感觸難免；另一個男的和同性伴侶同居十年，物質上金錢上都努力滿足對方，然而後來對方抽到經濟房屋，不時找理由吵吵鬧鬧，最後不歡而散。 

我的確有點唏噓！

比你差的人才會在你背後補刀

在面書看到這個，很有意思！

If You Ever Fall in Love...

Michael Fiore說：

如果愛，就愛那個想知道你最愛甚麽顔色，喜歡甚麽咖啡的，

愛那個愛看到你笑而且願意做任何事引你發笑的，

愛那個把頭放在你胸膛聼你心跳的，

愛那個在大庭廣衆吻你，因爲愛你而感到自豪所以將你介紹給全世界認識的，

愛那個會令你問「為什麽我從前怕愛人」的，

愛那個無論如何都不願傷害你的，

愛那個愛你一切缺點而且覺得你完美的，

愛那個願意一生每天醒來都見到你的。

如果不會那樣愛，不如罷了。

刹那間我竟然希望希澈會是那個人！

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